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Birthday gifts for guy you are hookup

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I recently searched the term fuckbuddies and was pleasantly surprised that this was a rather popular hash tag, mostly populated by memes, selfies of Birthday gifts for guy you are hookup naked humans and a lot of group shots surprising? Whether it's that opposite sex friend that's your "bestie", your study partner or that nice guy you keep on the down-low who is only talked about by their nickname amongst your friends, friends with benefits FWB is a state of relationship that many of us are all too familiar with.

We get into them for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it feels like a magnet is pulling your bodies together, sometimes it's the lab partner you see on a weekly basis you know At times the FWB can be confused with a situationship.

A situationship is highly based on sexual compatibility and long term convenience. They are the sexual relationships that straddle the FWB and relationship line; that foggy state of relationship status when there isn't a label on "what this is" or your situation together, as you navigate what the next steps are; like putting your Facebook relationship status into "it's complicated".

When a birthday or holiday...

Unhealthy situationships are the bane of my existence. Because they're complicated and someone always gets emotionally hurt.

It is because of the frequency of situationships that I've been exposed to over the years that I decided to share a collaborated wealth of advice and lay down the rules of FWB relationships. To be honest, if executed properly, friends with benefits have been found to Birthday gifts for guy you are hookup longer than real relationships do! These rules are basically a guideline to demonstrate how to set healthy relationship boundaries for yourself and your lover. The motivation for FWBrules is to help you figure out how to stay on good terms with your fornication friend for the desired amount of time and save the emotional heartache or disruption.

You may agree with most and disagree with a few, but if you've ever been an FWB you know exactly what I'm talking about. I didn't make the rules but I do want to share them with you; so, pony up, take a read and add your own FWBrules in the comments below.

They are time limited. The lifespan of your love affair is limited and you have to come to terms with that going into the arrangement. There are rules to the frequency of engagement.

Basically, anywhere from once a week to once a month is acceptable, unless, it's a holiday or long weekend. The key is to keep things light and casual - no back to back encounters sex marathon-ing to break a world record doesn't count, but keep the Powerade refrigerated.

Presents like small trinkets or picking up the bill are ok, but don't expect a gift for you birthday or for a respective holiday.

Gift giving is for sentimental relationships. Your FWB can't be someone you work with.

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