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Love a girl but not sexually


Can people be physically incompatible, but still in love?

Our resident expert weighs in. What can we do? Of course people can be in love without the physical compatibility right away.

I then wen't for a...

Our brain is our most important sexual organ. Mental attraction is absolutely required for falling in love and staying there.

Not "madly" in love but...

While physical chemistry is important to the success of many relationships, mental attraction is what makes long-term relationships survive. Bodies will change over the years, but mental attraction can deepen with time.

Desire and pleasure are felt first in the mind, then reflected throughout the body. Spend time together, fostering your attraction from the mental to the physical.

Get turned on together. You could do this by talking, flirting, touching, and massaging each other. Immerse yourselves in each other and let go of the idea of any physical goals, like the need to climax.

Can I be in love...

Focus instead on the pleasure you give each other, in whatever form that takes. A reputable sex or relationship therapist can help you identify blockages or obstacles and work through them. Good luck and be kind and slow with yourself: This is the best time of day to have sex, here's how to make it happen.

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