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Bad personality traits dating divas


You've been dating the same type of guy or gal for years -- controlling, dominating, manipulative -- and you can't seem to break Bad personality traits dating divas pattern. Your friends are constantly asking: Do any or all of these former partners remind you of someone in your life? If you examine closely, I bet you'll see a resemblance between these toxic personalities to the earliest relationship you had with the opposite sex: Our relationships are often based on projected material.

We gravitate to people who let us do what we know how to do -- whether positive or negative -- people who are familiar to us.

The early patterns of interactions that we learned with our opposite-sex parent might lead us to the same patterns again, keeping us in our comfort zone. So even though you may keep telling your friends that you want something different -- maybe a more thoughtful partner, one who accepts you for who you are and doesn't try to control you -- Bad personality traits dating divas will likely still gravitate to the controlling parental figure, a personality you are familiar with and have experience handling.

As you mature and grow, you may recognize that you want a different kind of partner in your adult life. To know yourself is the first step to gaining the ability to acknowledge and recognize similar patterns in relationships -- and to avoid them.

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Though still drawn to those familiar personalities, you can choose to deliberately override the compulsion, through conscious awareness.

If you do this, then you make room for the right relationship to enter.

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Because you have changed, you may begin to attract a different person, a better person. From my experience as a researcher and educator, with a Ph. The Dominant and Controlling Partner An overly intense person who exhibits characteristics of dominance and control -- someone with a temper, who pouts, withdraws, and has to have his or her way.

The Narcissist Narcissism can be hard to detect because, in part, they are great at hiding their self-interests. They are the perfect Bad personality traits dating divas, seemingly highly tuned in to your wants and needs.

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Nevertheless, everything for the narcissist directs back to self-interest. Further into the relationship, you may notice that narcissists are punishers and if you don't do things that fulfill their ideal, they become upset and withdraw. Narcissists are manipulative and will do anything possible to accomplish their goal. You may notice that all the conversations are directed towards them. They may not even ask you about your interests or experiences, never mind your feelings.

The Damaged Soul Then there's the person who is so badly damaged from their own childhood wounding, there is no way that they can be in a healthy relationship, not without serious therapy. Many times the caretaking child becomes the caretaking Bad personality traits dating divas and gravitates to this kind of person.

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